Just Don't

Don't try to "ruin"someones life because they've had a negative impact on yours. Just don't. Its selfish and kind of stupid...

If you've been dealt a bad hand (which really, who hasn't) maybe, just maybe a tiny part of it is your fault... Not all of it. But a little? Maybe?

You make your decisions, you choose your life path and to think that someone could possibly alter your life so drastically that you can't function like a normal human being is bull. Sorry but it is. You get what you give. You project an aura, if its negative then thats the energy it attracts! The only person to blame, the only person holding you back is you.

You are the one who doesn't believe in you,
you are the one who thinks you're dumb,
old,
fat,
ugly,
poor,
not good enough...
You are the one who says can't, i'm incapable.
You are the one who
will 
always
make
excuses.

You want to drink yourself to death? Don't blame your high school gym teacher.
You want to stay in a relationship that isn't going anywhere? Don't blame your father.
You want to do something different in your life? Anything? Travel? Paint? Teach?

Quit blaming everyone else around you and look at yourself.

You can do whatever you want in life, your life hasn't been that bad. There are very few people out there who have legitimate excuses for wallowing. Yes, really shitty crap things happen to people everyday that change who they are. That give them want and reason to give up. But for everyone of them who give up there are many who survive. Who get on with their lives and quit letting things that happen to them define them.

be defined by what you do. not the things done to you.

I am over people acting like one tiny little bump in the road is a mountain. Lame excuse. Mountains are meant to be climbed anyways.


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